The Keys to making Lasting, Meaningful Changes in Ones Life


Have you ever considered making changes in certain areas of your life?

Have you attempted to make changes in the past, experienced minor successes, but wound up where you started?

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Maybe you wanted to become a better father or mother, control your computer addictions, improve your temperament, or lose weight. Sometimes the solution comes down to finding meaning in your life. However, in most cases, you have to make lasting, meaningful changes in your lifestyle habits in order to accomplish your goals. Before we can identify and utilize the keys to making significant lifestyle changes, there are certain concepts that we may have to learn. Human beings have the tendency to find ways that they will fail when they are presented with new concepts to Read more…

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6 Signs to Know That He Wants to Marry You

 

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Understanding women is difficult, at least in terms of relationships or when any man needs to know if the girl is in love or not. But at the same time, it is also quite troublesome to know if the man too loves or rather wants to marry any girl.

Undoubtedly at least for men, it is very easy to claim that he loves you. But when it is about commitments like marriage, only true and real men come forward.

In case you too have that someone special in your life and you are keen to know if he is interested in having a life term relationship with you, by marriage, here are some signs that will help you getting this idea.

Introducing his family- Taking you back his home, while he is alone isn’t a big issue. But if your man takes you back at his home and introduces his family members to you, then you must understand that he is keen in making you a part of his family. If he invites you or calls you up for every or rather most of the major family occasions or gatherings, irrespective if it’s big or small, he is all ready to have an official relationship with you. At the same time, if his family members welcome you whole-heartedly, it means that he has already spoken about you. This shows that your relationship is on the right direction.


Part of decisions- He needs to have a better job for a better career and he is planning to move with you. He is asking which apartment could be better for investing for a long term basis. Or if he is planning a family, kids or deciding any other important stuff and he includes you all along these plans, then it’s a clear sign that your guy planning to have a long term future with you. And that itself clearly shows that he is planning a marriage.

Open-minded- If you see he doesn’t hide anything from you or is sharing almost every significant thing, then it’s sure that he considers you as a very important part in his life. Only those guys are reliable, not just in marriage, but also in serious relationships, who share almost everything. If he hides anything, then it’s seriously not a good sign. The more he shares, the more he shows that he is proud to have you.

Sticks with you- This does not mean that he always sticks with every now and then. It in fact means that he is with you in your difficult times. As you notice that he is with you even in your most difficult moments, then it is sure that your guy does not want you only for fun. He is actually serious in sharing all those possible difficult situations that may come up in your future.

No room for jealousy- Most of the men often feel jealous when their girl talks or jokes around with some other guy. But if you see your man is absolutely comfortable while you are talking with some other guy, other than him, then it’s for sure that he completely trusts you.

Small signs of proposing- In case you see he often passes small comments saying about marriage, of course with you, and asks how would you like to be proposed, it’s definitely a true sign that he is all for you. Showering love and calling you as his “only one” show how much you mean to him.

In case you have seen some of these signs in your guy or even all, then make a mental picture that a beautiful marriage proposal can come up any time. After all, fun is for small boys, when it’s about true commitments, only real men will be there.

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This Guy Paid Off His Parents’ Mortgage For Christmas

Joe Riquelme, an app developer from New York, surprised his parents with a special gift on Christmas Day: he paid off their mortgage.

In a video he uploaded to YouTube, Joe is sitting at home with his parents and their dog, when he presents them with an envelope.In a video he uploaded to YouTube, Joe is sitting at home with his parents and their dog, when he presents them with an envelope.

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Inside, a simple letter reads:

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When his parents realise what Joe has done, they are moved to tears.
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While Joe’s dad weeps, his mother cries, “Oh thank you. I love you”.
While Joe's dad weeps, his mother cries, "Oh thank you. I love you".
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The touching video Joe uploaded to YouTube on December 26th has since had almost 2 million views.


 

AirAsia Plane En Route To Singapore Is Missing|What happen

Still no sign of missing AirAsia plane on flight to Indonesia

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More than 160 people were on the plane, according to the latest statement from the airline An Indonesia Transport Ministry official said they have halted the search for the day because it was getting dark, but that they will resume the search at 7:00 a.m. Monday morning, local time, or even earlier if the weather is good. Before the plane vanished, the Airbus A320-200 had requested a deviation due to enroute weather. The airline said the plane was carrying a total of 162 people, including two pilots, four flight attendants, and an engineer. In an updated statement, AirAsia confirmed that a British citizen was among the passengers.

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How – and how not – to travel for running races | What To Know

What would you do for a beautiful Sunday when you are at New York City?

You never expect there are 50,000 runners  in New York City for a marathon.

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More than 50,000 runners are expected to travel to New York City this Sunday for the marathon.

If you’re one of them, or if you’ve ever traveled to compete in an athletic event, you know that there are a lot of ways things can go wrong. You’re staying in an unfamiliar place, eating unfamiliar food and sleeping in an unfamiliar bed.

Many runners have two approaches to competing in a foreign land: They either try to replicate their conditions at home as closely as possible, or they say screw it and run the race for fun, using traveling as an excuse for poor performance. But there is a middle ground.

Here are a few tips to help you balance having fun and doing your best when you travel for a race.

Get there early, stay late

Marathoner Chris Anselmo frequently travels for races, and says he always tries to arrive two nights early.

“I get in there earlier if I have to get acclimated to altitude,” he said.

He also spends a few days in the destination after the race so he can really enjoy himself without the race hanging over his head.

“After all, that is most of the reason why you are doing a destination run and not just doing one in your home town,” he said.

“Plus, it’s tough getting on a plane and sitting for hours just after a marathon.”

Try renting an apartment or house instead of a hotel room

When Michael Daly, a marathoner and founder of apparel company Boom Running, went to London for the 2011 marathon, he booked a small apartment in Lecester Square where he could prepare his own pre-race dinner and breakfast. That meant he could better control what he ate, and saved money. When Daly ran the Chicago marathon, he even packed his usual brand of pasta and red sauce to cook.

Find a place to stay near the starting line

“Though in hindsight I think this was slightly overboard,” he said.

Runner Stephanie Donohue traveled to Chicago for the Warrior Dash, but stayed with friends who didn’t live near the race.

“We got lost in a corn field on the way there, because that is all there is outside of Chicago,” she said. “We arrived late and started the race as the front pack was finishing their first lap, which was kind of fun.”
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Runners in the New York City marathon in 2009.

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When Daly traveled to London, his apartment was “right in the heart of things,” but he had to take the train to the race start. He researched the train schedule and found his station in advance, but still ran into trouble.

“Turned out the location was maybe too central,” he says. “The apartment was on a very busy street, at a busy intersection, at a bus stop, in one of the nightlife districts. I basically didn’t sleep for five nights before the race.”

Plan for a variety of weather

Donohue also traveled to London for the Where’s Wally race in late March. She lives in Boston, so she thought the weather couldn’t be colder than what she usually experiences. She was wrong.

There was a brutal cold snap on the day of the race, and while she wore her warmest clothes, including a down vest, her feet had “turned into cloven hooves” by the race’s start.

“I didn’t even bother taking off my down vest for running and I am not exaggerating in the slightest when I say I did not warm up, even while running, nor did I regain feeling in my feet until the end, when I ran straight through the finish line and into a tea shop across the street,” she said.

She now recommends runners bring clothes for a variety of weather, even if you think you know what the conditions will be.

The forecast for this Sunday predicts temperatures in the 40s.

Bring your running gear as a carry-on

Runner Abigail Lesneski always brings her own pillow when she travels for races. And Marathoner Lauren McNiff says she puts her shoes, race outfit, and whatever she needs during the race in a carry on bag when she’s flying.

Map it out

Find the race start in advance, and make sure you know how to get from where you’re staying to the starting line, recommends Anselmo. He also suggests finding a store nearby for last minute supplies like water and snacks.


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McNiff researches ahead of time to find restaurants that serve her favorite pre-race meal and makes reservations so she won’t be stuck eating too late.

Ice or have a beer after you finish (or both)

Anselmo says when he finishes a race, it’s “buy the jacket, beer, beer, beer in that order.”

Make it memorable

Daly says he takes an ice bath after longer races, which helps his legs recover so he can enjoy the rest of his trip.

Daly says if he’s running a big city marathon, he buys the local newspaper the next day.

“It’s usually a very cool keepsake,” he said. “The Boston Globe and Chicago Tribune print the names and times of all finishers, usually in a special section dedicated to the race itself. When else will you make the newspaper in such a big city?”

Despite the extra planning and uncertainty, all of these runners recommend traveling for races. Sure, conditions might not be perfect, and there might be mishaps like noisy sleeping locations or missed turns on the way to the race.

But races usually showcase the highlights of the city, giving runners an up-close look they might not otherwise get.

Claire Trageser is a multimedia journalist who contributes to NPR, Marie Claire, and Runner’s World. She has been a runner since graduating college and trains for marathons in her free time.

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    With 1,500,000 lights, this family wins at Christmas | Fabulous

    Have you seen 1.5 million lights for Christmas before? 

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    How many lights do you need for a real-life Christmas fairy tale? In the small Croatian town of azma, a few thousand Christmas lights would make your house stand out from the rest. Around 1.5 million lights the Salaj family does not know the exact number, though they’re sure this figure is very close hardly fit on a single house.

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    The 12 Most Successful Original Films Of 2014

    Movies that are not sequels, prequels, remakes, or adaptations of novels, comic books, popular toy lines, or true stories are growing ever more scarce — but some did, at least, make money this year

    Universal; Warner Bros.; Universal; Universal; 20th Century Fox

    Its probably a minor consideration for Sony (if one at all), but in a year in which all top 10 grossing films stateside were either sequels or based on pre-existing creative properties, the addition of any original creative work born solely from its filmmakers imaginations is a significant one. As a point of contrast, 15 years ago, six original films cracked the top 10 domestic grossers of the year. Of course, movies based on other things are often quite good occasionally, even great but they shouldnt be the only kind of movie.

    There are many encouraging effects of Sony Pictures’ decision to allow theaters to screen The Interview on Dec. 25, but perhaps one of the least acknowledged is the fact that it brings the last original studio movie of 2014 to screens nationwide. It’s probably a minor consideration for Sony (if one at all), but in a year in which all top 10 grossing films stateside were either sequels or based on pre-existing creative properties, the addition of any original creative work born solely from its filmmakers’ imaginations is a significant one.

    As Grantland contributor Mark Harris recently laid out, Hollywood’s entire business model — and therefore, the moviegoing diet of the vast majority of Americans — has been overtaken with sequels, prequels, reboots, remakes, reimaginings, and adaptations. As a point of contrast, 15 years ago, six original films cracked the top 10 domestic grossers of the year. But even prestige-y, awards-y movies that largely don’t bother to compete with major studio releases have also become dominated with telling pre-existing stories: Just this year, Selma, The Theory of Everything, The Imitation Game, Wild, Foxcatcher, Unbroken, and Mr. Turner are all based on real people and real events (and all but Selma, Foxcatcher, and Mr. Turner were adaptations of books).

    Of course, movies based on other things are often quite good — occasionally, even great — but they shouldn’t be the only kind of movie. More and more, however, as far as Hollywood is concerned, they are. Original films do still get made, but they are fewer and farther between — of the top 50 grossers of the year in the U.S., just 12 of them are wholly original productions. Last year, that number was 15.

    As you’ll see in the list below, some of that drop could be chalked up to quality — namely, a lack of it. But as Harris noted in his essay, Hollywood’s resources — both financial and creative — are finite. If the best minds and the most money are being invested in shepherding a suite of franchises scheduled through the rest of the decade, there is that much less oxygen for purely original creativity to thrive.

    All box office data courtesy Box Office Mojo, and as of Sunday, Dec. 21.

     

    1. Interstellar

    Interstellar

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    Total domestic gross: $171,535,531
    Total global gross: $635,535,531
    Rank for 2014 domestic box office: 15

    Let’s set aside for the moment the movie’s wordy portentousness, and marvel instead that co-writer/director Christopher Nolan is using his clout as arguably the most powerful filmmaker in Hollywood today (arguably!) to make an original movie with as much scope and ambition as this one. Its considerable global box office putsInterstellar ninth worldwide for the year, and makes as plain a case as possible that investing in a filmmaker’s original vision can pay off handsomely.

    In fact, let’s invent a new thing. How about we start calling original filmmakers “human franchises” instead? Perhaps then Hollywood will pay more attention to supporting them.

    2. Neighbors

    Neighbors

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    Total domestic gross: $150,157,400
    Total global gross: $268,157,400
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 18

    Another human franchise: Seth Rogen, who was having a very good year (until this month) thanks to the runaway success of last May’s very funny twentysomething college student vs. thirtysomething new parent comedy. In addition to starring in the film, Rogen produced Neighbors with his creative partner Evan Goldberg. The duo also wrote, produced, and directed last year’s very funny — and quite original — apocalyptic comedy This Is the End, and they wrote, produced, and directed The Interview. What I’m saying here is that Rogen and Goldberg are arguably (arguably!) the biggest force in original comedy today, and I really, really hope the fallout fromThe Interview debacle doesn’t diminish their commitment or ability to make original movies.

    3. Ride Along

    Ride Along

    Universal

    Total domestic gross: $134,938,200
    Total global gross: $153,997,819
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 19

    An up-and-coming human franchise: Kevin Hart, who solidified his momentum this year as one of Hollywood’s top comedy stars with this January hit. Hart’s other two films this year — February’s About Last Night, and June’s Think Like a Man Too — were a remake and sequel, respectively, and their domestic grosses combined still do not equal Ride Along’s U.S. box office. Just saying.

    4. Lucy

    Lucy

    Universal

    Total domestic gross: $126,663,600
    Total global gross: $458,863,600
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 21

    Many people have rightly pointed at Lucy’s unmistakable box office success and screamed as loud as they could, “SEE! Women CAN kick ass AND make money too!” Months later, female-centric superhero movies Wonder Woman and Captain Marvel were officially announced, and while those movies were long in the works,Lucy’s success surely gave their studios a palpable sense of relief.

    If you haven’t already picked up on the theme of this story, however, let me also scream as loud as I can in written form: “SEE! Women IN ORIGINAL MOVIES can make money too! THEY DON’T JUST HAVE TO BE BASED ON COMIC BOOK SUPERHEROES! They can also be metaphysical sci-fi insanity!”

    5. Non-Stop

    Non-Stop

    Universal

    Total domestic gross: $92,168,600
    Total global gross: $222,809,600
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 29

    Another year, another gift of a fleet, original Liam Neeson thriller. This movie isn’t exactly breaking the mold, but at least that mold isn’t in the shape of a battleship, amirite?

    6. Fury

    Fury

    Columbia Pictures

    Total domestic gross: $84,705,660
    Total global gross: $182,205,660
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 32

    Brad Pitt kind of invented the modern human franchise as one of Hollywood’s biggest forces in original and/or impactful filmmaking. (His only sequels to date have been the Ocean’s movies.) Even when Pitt is making a troubled adaptation of a best-selling zombie thriller, it somehow turns out to be far more inventive and interestingthan it has any right to be. Whether that is also true of this World War II tank drama isopen for debate, but it is also clear that without Pitt’s support of writer-director David Ayer’s vision, this movie likely would not exist.

    7. Tammy

    Tammy

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    Total domestic gross: $84,525,432
    Total global gross: $100,375,432
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 33

    Here’s where things start to get maybe a little depressing. Melissa McCarthy is a gift to the world, but this movie — written by McCarthy and her husband, Ben Falcone, and directed by Falcone — was…not. Sold as a raucous comedy, Tammy was instead an almost gentle character drama weirdly punctuated with broad fits of humiliation-based humor. As an attempt to fashion McCarthy into a full-on human franchise, it left a lot to be desired. But thanks to that misleading marketing campaign, it ended up as the seventh highest-grossing original film of the year. Hooray?

    8. The Other Woman

    The Other Woman

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    Total domestic gross: $83,911,193
    Total global gross: $196,570,008
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 35

    If it wasn’t already clear, high-concept comedy is the last bastion of original studio filmmaking. And if you’ve been to any high-concept studio comedies lately — likethis quasi-feminist revenge comedy — you’ll know why this isn’t an unambiguously great thing. Moving on!

    9. Let’s Be Cops

    Let's Be Cops

    Frank Masi / 20th Century Fox

    Total domestic gross: $82,390,774
    Total global gross: $126,939,075
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 37

    MOVING ON!

    10. The Nut Job

    The Nut Job

    Open Road Films

    Total domestic gross: $64,251,541
    Total global gross: $113,307,962
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 43

    Full disclosure: Placing this January release on this list is cheating a tiny bit, since it was based on an original animated short called Surly Squirrel. I felt it was worth including since the same director, Peter Lepeniotis, made both, forming a kind of closed loop of creativity.

    But I also wanted to point out that every other major animated feature film this year was decidedly not an original film. It used to be the opposite. It used to be unusual that a feature animation studio would make a sequel or spin-off or adaptation of a popular toy line. This year, it was the rule. (Next year, however, Pixar will release twooriginal movies — Inside Out in June and The Good Dinosaur in November — and not too soon.)

    11. God’s Not Dead

    God's Not Dead

    Pure Flix Entertainment

    Total domestic gross: $60,755,732
    Total global gross: $62,630,732
    Rank for all 2014 domestic box office: 45

    The Bible — one of the oldest pre-existing stories! — enjoyed something of a resurgence in popularity at the box office this year. But this original Christian-based film, about a college student who challenges his professor’s assertion that God is dead, stood out even more. The independent production opened with $9.2 million in just 780 theaters in March, and then went on to earn more than six times that figure in the U.S.

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    Vertical running: Elite athletes race up skyscrapers in a 484 meter tall tower

    Do you ever run 2,120 steps non-stop in the tallest building in Hong Kong ?


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    At 118 stories, the tower is the tallest building in Hong Kong, and among the world’s tallest structures. The run took them to the 100th of the ICC’s 118 floors in 2,120 painful steps. Wilson, a wiry 40-year-old from Adelaide, Australia, finished first in just under 12 minutes, pumping the air as he crossed the finish line before slumping to the floor for a well-deserved rest.

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    Suzy Walsham and Darren Wilson are among a growing number of people who have embraced “vertical running” as a sport.

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    Mongooses playing in a ball pit couldn’t be more joyous

      Want to see what happiness looks like?

    “Mongooses dig as a part of their natural behavior, and a ball pit encourages digging,” the description continues. “And well, it’s a heck of a lot of fun for every species.” Yup, even to watch. Read more…

    Ten Rules to Better Role-Playing in Skyrim | Best Games

    Are you looking for a deeper role-playing experience? Skyrim was made for role-players, and gives you plenty of ways to lose yourself in another time and place. These 10 tips can help make your role-playing experience even richer!

    Now that you’ve got a character you can get invested in, it’s time to let that character shine!

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    Designing a good character is really only half the battle.

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    You won’t see the rewards of your role-playing until you get out there in the world and start making decisions about where to go, who to believe, and what to do about it. Read more…